My son came home last night after spending 4 days at his Dad’s and a simple question took a turn for the worse.
I could feel myself getting sharp. Saying things I shouldn’t say. Watching his face tighten.
I knew what I was doing and I did it anyway. And I instantly wished I hadn’t.
Until.
He started opening up.
Two hours later, we were sitting on the couch talking about stuff he’s been holding in for years.
There were tears. Honest ones. The kind that washes away the hurt.
And when it was done, we sat there quietly. His (still little to me) hand holding onto mine.
No tension. Just relief.
These kinds of things don’t just jump out of nowhere – in your personal life or your business.
You know it has to happen, but you go quiet and hope it’ll sort itself out.
Then one night, the lid comes off.
You say the hard things.
It’s messy. It’s real. And after that, there’s room to breathe again.
That email you need to send.
The system you know is broken.
The awkward conversation you’ve been avoiding.
You don’t want to deal with it.
You tell yourself it’s not urgent.
But your day gets slower. Your brain gets heavier. And you can’t figure out why nothing’s moving.
Then finally, you handle it.
And just like that, everything else gets easier.
If there’s something like that sitting in your business – a tool that’s not working, a folder full of half-finished stuff, a spreadsheet that makes you want to throw your laptop … that’s your sign.
Pick one. Handle it. Feel the shift.
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That’s kind of my thing.
Let’s do it together in a 1:1 session and INCITE something bigger.
If my 18 year old son can do it, so can you.
